ekenedegreat:
I am a christian and I believe in God and his book (bible) so there's no way I will argue with a pagan.
All I knw is dat, as a man I owe my woman LOVE while my woman owe me SUBMISSION according to my bible. and if I can't have mine I must make sure you don't get yours. That means the relationship is going to be like dat of cat and dog.

Dear Mr Christian

Kindly remind us what your precious bible says about judging people. Did Jesus not say let he who is not of sin cast the first stone? Who are you to be casting names at people? You do not know any of our religious affiliations nor our believes Oh, wait! My bad, sorry it's you! Saint Christian! We are so humbled by your extra holy presence... NOT!

Why did you even bother to read and reply

Evina:



Acting as subordinates? How can they act as subordinates when in reality they are? You don't know the meaning of subordinates.

A subordinate is someone who holds a junior rank or position in a corporate environment.

And your subsequent paragraphs

Honestly girl, I am finding it really cumbersome understanding your views. I don't understand how you arrive at conclusions I never insinuated. I really don't know what basis your argument is framed upon

You are funny. You said i'm being submissive to my male boss.

But when i mentioned about men who have female boss, you diverted. Smh
BYE!!!

mikolo80:
yes you did

Copy and paste please

Observing comments

Evina swirrie
Na ur mama born u

DieeDiee:


Just looked @ your profile and saw your previous post and 90% of the people you follow are female. You are a CHEAT! I could smell it off you. No wonder you want a submissive woman, so that she will not stand up to you!!! No nigger your wife aint confident, she lacks self-love. She needs to find herself some love and leave your trifflin' A!

U really are a silly nitwit.

Did u bother to know if I was single when I joined nairaland in 2009

Do u know if I was searching then.

Don't generalize and conclude when what you know is really so minute.

Your stupidity is enormous. A married man can have a female friend who desires him but knows he is off limits.

I have never come here to say I had an affair

DieeDiee:


Does he tell you what to wear? Where you can go? When you can go? How much money to spend? If not what is it you are submissive about?

Very far from it...ok let me break it down for u...he dosnt tel me wat to wear bt comment cos am alwys gud to go,wen i wan to go out wit my frends, he will only say *be careful out der,..money nope bt alwys tell me to av budget cos somtimes i spend unnecesary .eg, my necessary bugdet for ds december we av written it out & anyone i do wil call him tellin him i av jus done dat....
my submissive..eg. i dnt miss d time he says i shudnt be out cos my area is a lonely place & kind of dangerous so i dnt exceed dat time..(pls we ar nt stayin togeda yet which can easily make me say am indoor wen am acutally out)
sometimes der are things i need to do in d house bt i will be lazying abt,if he calls & know wat am supose to do,he wil tell me politely & romantically *Mine pls fix dat up & rest* and me knowin fully dat its d right thing to do,i wil fix it up & tel him am done..dats wen u nw hear all d romantic words he will tell me...
am jus happy abt all ds & he is happy too.
shikena ooooooo...

Midehi:

Dont know wat you are talking about

yes he does :DDD

voodoo85:


yes he does :DDD

If he has done it with you then he does

scribble:



U really are a silly nitwit.

Did u bother to know if unwashed single when I joined nairaland in 2009

Do u know if I was searching then.

Don't generalize and conclude when what you know is really so minute.

Nc nc nc... The name calling starts *sigh...why do people feel the need to stoop low*

I'm talking about the post where you are bragging about your side chick while you about to marry and went further to say you've been unfaithful for 7yrs and your wife knows and you will carry on being unfaithful. Recall?

DieeDiee:


Just looked @ your profile and saw your previous post and 90% of the people you follow are female. You are a CHEAT! I could smell it off you. No wonder you want a submissive woman, so that she will not stand up to you!!! No nigger your wife aint confident, she lacks self-love. She needs to find herself some love and leave your trifflin' A!

100% of LADIES who claim submissive are sex freaks, without any future, desperate marriage seekers.

100% of MEN who claim submissive are cheats, sexfreaks, perverts who objectify women.

I'm out of here. That's why Western women would always be ahead of us.

Mondisweets:
how are u?

I just dey o

What are they submiting...is it assignment or classwork.

VickyyB:


100% of LADIES who claim submissive are sex freaks, without any future, desperate marriage seekers.

100% of MEN who claim submissive are cheats, sexfreaks, perverts who objectify women.

I'm out of here. That's why Western women would always be ahead of us.

you love arguments

VickyyB:


You are funny. You said i'm being submissive to my male boss.

But when i mentioned about men who have female boss, you diverted. Smh
BYE!!!

You are funnier. In fact, so funny it is amazing.

When did I mention that you are submissive to your boss? Do I know you? Do I know if you have a boss?

And please if you cannot argue constructively without throwing in subtle insults like "smh" then put yourself in observation mode.

I am really amazed at how you find it hard comprehending someone's post, consistently misunderstanding their view and creating imaginary misconceptions. It makes me wonder...

chibwike:
What are they submiting...is it assignment or classwork.

Lol,

chibwike:
you love arguments

Is it bad?

DieeDiee:


Nc nc nc... The name calling starts *sigh...why do people feel the need to stoop low*

I'm talking about the post where you are bragging about your side chick while you about to marry and went further to say you've been unfaithful for 7yrs and your wife knows and you will carry on being unfaithful. Recall?

Ok. So u married me. Fyi I'm still single. Wife can mean girlfriend

Ii never said unfaithful. That's not how I see it. I'm allowed to have female friends.

U started the name calling.

AgapeCharis:
Observing comments

Evina swirrie
Na ur mama born u

Lol, I dey go enter that post wey you share some mins back.

Medunah:
I agree with dieediee on this, wht makes a man a better leader than i am? Why should everything he orders be right and i cant question his orders??

Its good women are coming out these days and airing their opinions, our fore mothers were totally submissive to our fore fathers, our fore mothers would gladly kneel down while our fore fathers were eating and all those shii but did it stop our fore fathers from marrying more wives? Did it stop our fore fathers from having concubines?? NOOO!!!

Another entirely wrong view of the subject, in my opinion. Why on earth should you marry a man that's not a "better leader" than you are if really we're in the discourse of marriage? Wrong choice?

Also, marrying another woman or having concubines were powered by tradition; it was not frowned at, it was actually a way of life, and not because the woman was or wasn't submissive enough.

VickyyB:


100% of LADIES who claim submissive are sex freaks, without any future, desperate marriage seekers.

100% of MEN who claim submissive are cheats, sexfreaks, perverts who objectify women.

I'm out of here. That's why Western women would always be ahead of us.

Yes western women ahead of you in divorce....don't worry u will catchh up

I bet you are early 30s....are u married?

CoachDX:
Another entirely wrong view of the subject, in my opinion. Why on earth should you marry a man that's not a "better leader" than you are if really we're in the discourse of marriage? Wrong choice?

Also, marrying another woman or having concubines were powered by tradition; it was not frowned at, it was actually a way of life, and not because the woman was or wasn't submissive enough.

Dude I think it's cos of all the moi moi men out there. When women see a really good man, nobody needs to tell them to change their mindset.

Evina:


I really do not get what you are driving at

I also marvel at how have chosen to understand my post Especially the insinuations you perceive I have made.

Please rephrase your questions in simpler terms.

While you do that, in reference to your point that family and work shouldn't be compared, I totally disagree. I mean, if you as a woman can show respect and honor and can yield to the will of your male superior in the office even when you detest him, why can't you do same for a man you claim to love?

I mean, if you misinterprete submission for control and claim you are miss independent and will not be controlled by any man, then you have double standards if you let a man at the office "control" you. Your so called free will shouldn't have boundaries.

If I may interject babe? What Vickky is trying to say is:

1) You are comparing apples to oranges as a romantic relationship and a professional relationship are two different kinds of relationship with different dynamics therefore it is faulty to attempt to compare them, but

2) Using your reasoning, you still fall short because according to you if one can be subordinate to their boss they should be subordinate to their partner. Therefore Vickky is asking you does that mean MEN who have WOMEN as bosses should be subordinate to their wives at home because according to you again if you can be subordinate at work you should be subordinate at home with the one you love - this means using your reasoning men with female bosses should be submissive to their wives.

scribble:



Yes western women ahead of you in divorce....don't worry u will catchh up

I bet you are early 30s....are u married?

I'm not even in my twenties. SMH

And you are ahead in promiscuity/Polygamy.

scribble:



Ok. So u married me. Fyi I'm still single. Wife can mean girlfriend

Ii never said unfaithful. That's not how I see it. I'm allowed to have female friends.

U started the name calling.

6 and 9 you still cheating on her and she still needs to find self love

chibwike:
What are they submiting...is it assignment or classwork.

LMAO!!! *dead*

VickyyB:


I'm not even in my twenties. SMH

And you are ahead in promiscuity/Polygamy.

Lol

VickyyB:


Is it bad?

Nope...not at all...coz u argue intelligently

DieeDiee:


If I may interject babe? What Vickky is trying to say is:

1) You are comparing apples to oranges as a romantic relationship and a professional relationship are two different kinds of relationship with different dynamics therefore it is faulty to attempt to compare them, but

2) Using your reasoning, you still fall short because according to you if one can be subordinate to their boss they should be subordinate to their partner. Therefore Vickky is asking you does that mean MEN who have WOMEN as bosses should be subordinate to their wives at home because according to you again if you can be subordinate at work you should be subordinate at home with the one you love - this means [b]using your reasoning[/b]men with female bosses should be submissive to their wives.

You and Vicky should quit quoting me out of context.

Your interpretation of my post is devoid of sensible reasoning. My point is clear. Don't assume what I haven't stated.

Besides, is your argument based on men submitting to women if they expect submission from women? OR is it based on women not submitting to a man at all?

Evina:


You and Vicky should quit quoting me out of context.

Your interpretation of my post is devoid of sensible reasoning. My point is clear. Don't assume what I haven't stated.

Besides, is your argument based on men submitting to women if they expect submission from women? OR is it based on women not submitting to a man at all?

I only repeated what you said and applied it in reverse. It's called testing the hypothesis. Besides she was asking does it mean that applied in reverse. It was a question.

DieeDiee:


I only repeated what you said and applied it in reverse. It's called testing the hypothesis.

Not at all. You stated what you interpreted from what I attempted to communicate. And I repeat, your interpretation is wrong.

mikolo80:
yes you did

... The crickets are getting loud. Still waiting for your evidence ...

DieeDiee:


LMAO!!! *dead*

Lol...the argument have been heated up...i dnt even knw where to start from.