CoachDX:

Who on earth masturbate when he's got a woman that's ever ready?

I never said so.
You made a reference on chinese fake dolls.

CoachDX:
Wife me that kind of a woman, men shouldn't be 'affected' or scared of that. My humble self will push her into more successes. But, don't forget, they've been submissive. I think we shouldn't go far, let's stay in Nigeria where you ladies seem to have this misunderstanding that being submissive does make you a slave. I know of Dora of blessed memories, I know of the newly wedded colleague: Toyosi Akerele. You see, no matter your status, you must find a man worthy to handle you and your power.

I'm not from Nigeria don't know Nigerians

fellis:
Its so obvious many of the men on this thread are unmarried.......and probably never even been in relationships before


You honestly think you can live under the same roof with another adult who isn't mentally retarded and not have to compromise your will for her once in a while?
Submission in the true sense of the word is not even possible, I don't want to write walls of text on this topic. For peaceful coexistence you bend to each other's will from time to time. Sometimes she has the final say and sometimes you have the final say, it can't be you, you, you all the time unless you want to end up with a very frustrated and vengeful wife/girlfriend.

Many Nairalanders really need to go out more because I read so much ridiculous and unrealistic bullshit on this site sometimes that makes me wonder if the men typing have ever even interacted with a female outside their families before.

If submission in the true sense of the word was not possible the world would not be celebrating 16 Days of Activism Against Women and Children Abuse right now. I wouldn't have a job, many organisations wouldn't exist. Abuse is not only physical it comes in many forms, submission being one.

VickyyB:

I never said so.
You made a reference on chinese fake dolls.

Yeah! For the women who marriage doesn't appeal to them because of the 'submission' word. They've got a companion in those dolls at least.

CoachDX:
Let me help you rephrase better
I pity a woman who's too strong to be submissive to her man.
...because I might be receiving her wedding invite every new year.

GBAM!!!

DieeDiee:


I'm not from Nigeria don't know Nigerians

Oops!
Well, you've been chatting with them for a while now, I guess you have a clue?

DieeDiee:


If submission in the true sense of the word was not possible the world would not be celebrating 16 Days of Activism Against Women and Children Abuse right now. I wouldn't have a job, many organisations wouldn't exist. Abuse is not only physical it comes in many forms, submission being one.

You aren't theist.

A true theist won't admit or understand that submission is actually abuse.

fellis:


You aren't theist.

A true theist won't admit or understand that submission is actually abuse.

I do believe in G but I'm wise enough to know when He is being abused to advance selfish, evil deeds

CoachDX:

Oops!
Well, you've been chatting with them for a while now, I guess you have a clue?

REALLY?!?!?! I thought NAIRAland meant Chinese people!!!

CoachDX:

Yeah! For the women who marriage doesn't appeal to them because of the 'submission' word. They've got a companion in those dolls at least.

Lol. Those sex dolls are female.

VickyyB:


Lol. Those sex dolls are female.

Lol, was thinking the same thing. He probably thought just cause he has one there ones for females too lolest!

fellis:


You aren't theist.

A true theist won't admit or understand that submission is actually abuse.

But a true theist still chyke women and lust after opposite sex he/she ain't married to?

DieeDiee:


I do believe in G but I'm wise enough to know when He is being abused to advance selfish, evil deeds

Human beings are just selfish and self centered naturally they see something bad but they keep encouraging it because it serves their personal interests. Religion is just another avenue to exercise their selfish and self centered natures, God didn't ask women to submit anything to men, those cavemen mofos wrote that fabricated shhit down.

fellis:


Human beings are just selfish and self centered naturally they see something bad but they keep encouraging it because it serves their personal interests. Religion is just another avenue to exercise their selfish and self centered natures, God didn't ask women to submit anything to men, those cavemen mofos wrote that fabricated shhit down.

Lol, you sound angry.

DieeDiee:


Lol, you sound angry.

Lol I am

I am tired of seeing women get abused in the name of scriptures.

DieeDiee:


REALLY?!?!?! I thought NAIRAland meant Chinese people!!!

Hehehe
Your sense of humour would delight a toddler.

VickyyB:


Lol. Those sex dolls are female.

C'mon, my ref was for male dolls and those play kits.

CoachDX:
Hehehe
Your sense of humour would delight a toddler.

so glad I brought you delight ... *baby talk voice* Yes I did ... Yes I did ... There's a good coaxie-woaxie. Would you like a bottle now? :p

CoachDX:
C'mon, my ref was for male dolls and those play kits.

I'm worried... How do you know about them when we don't?

DieeDiee:


so glad I brought you delight ... *baby talk voice* Yes I did ... Yes I did ... There's a good coaxie-woaxie. Would you like a bottle now? :p

Hahaha! You're such a clown! Get off my sight silly

CoachDX:
C'mon, my ref was for male dolls and those play kits.

Women are not SEX FREAK, you know?
We can go for decades without sex, unlike men.

VickyyB:


Women are not SEX FREAK, you know?
We can go for decades without sex, unlike men.

Not in the know of this. If you talk about from certain age (50 upwards) I'd agree.

DieeDiee:
@ Evina: please look at the dictionary definition I posted. Submission is impossible without a power relationship and it paves the way for abuse because it gives it an excuse. The degree of power exercised depends on how sadistic and submissive the two players are. So your honey may seem loving and sweet but it does not take away the fact you are being controlled. And how small does one's IQ or moral compass have to be that they need another human being to tell them what's right and what's wrong, what to do and what not to do? That is very condescending mentality. What makes a man a better moral compass than me? The thing between his legs?


With friends, siblings and even parents there's always compromise. In a submissive relationship there is none because the power is always concentrated on the one. (Btw parent-children relationships can be submissive too and those are abusive relationships (not necessarily physical can be emotional))

very low one for that matter
imagine dat u can't even voice out when he is wrong cos his words are final, na wa o

DieeDiee:


LOL!!! And I'm sure you are more than willing to oblige her, mh?

Why you entertaining other "boo"? Nigger if that were me, there wouldn't have been any laughing only explanations from your side. It's one thing for someone to throw herself at you but another for you to take the napkin home. Tell if it had been the other way around would you have also just laughed?

babe, u just making my day

Evina:


I really do not get what you are driving at

I also marvel at how have chosen to understand my post Especially the insinuations you perceive I have made.

Please rephrase your questions in simpler terms.

While you do that, in reference to your point that family and work shouldn't be compared, I totally disagree. I mean, if you as a woman can show respect and honor and can yield to the will of your male superior in the office even when you detest him, why can't you do same for a man you claim to love?

I mean, if you misinterprete submission for control and claim you are miss independent and will not be controlled by any man, then you have double standards if you let a man at the office "control" you. Your so called free will shouldn't have boundaries.

I believe same goes for men, if they think women should be submissive to them, then they should control their female boss at work place, isn't it?

Midehi:

Its nt control cos most of d do's & dont are things dat will favour me & @ d end tankin him

lol,so u are dumb enough not to know things that are beneficiary to u?smh,I bet all u have to offer in the r/ship is ur body and d guy pays all ur bills.becos if u know ur self worth as a lady........................well ma opinion differs to urs sha,sorry bout any derogatory words

folameme:
lol,so u are dumb enough not to know things that are beneficiary to u?smh,I bet all u have to offer in the r/ship is ur body and d guy pays all ur bills.becos if u know ur self worth as a lady........................well ma opinion differs to urs sha,sorry bout any derogatory words

U are jus a cheap LovePeddler dat has reduce ur tinkin facaulty.. ur brain is so loosed dat u dint get me...i dint ask of ur dull opinion...freak*harlot* stilvryproudofmywaywittreasure...

AfricanApple:
babe, u just making my day

That was an example of the "amazing" love a woman gets for being submissive - a double standards relationship. I have no doubt if the woman had brought home the napkin there wouldn't be any laughing and no sharing on nairaland... That lady really needs to look for self love

Midehi:

U are jus a cheap LovePeddler dat has reduce ur tinkin facaulty.. ur brain is so loosed dat u dint get me...i dint ask of ur dull opinion...freak*harlot* stilvryproudofmywaywittreasure...

Just curious: Have you ever had a differing opinion to his to something important? Did you suppress it or express it? If you expressed it, what was his reaction and how did that make you feel? (Really am curious, I'm trying to understand the kind of relationship you have)

Btw I find it hard to believe he only has complements for your outfits. Surely if he is someone who likes judging your clothes there have been outfits he hasn't liked, unless you deliberately dress in a way you know he will find pleasing...? In which case that means you have absolutely no mind of your own in this relationship. Do you not then see that not being allowed/given the opportunity to have a mind of your own means he has authority and power over you? In other words you are a child and he is your father?

walanter:
my own view .....i just pick some point which u ar try to prove and some which ar absolutely nut ......
what u ar typing here is nut an example of what u ar
i must say ....u ar just exaggerating shit here

have u ever heard d sound of an ak...

Walanter = air

scribble:



U really are a silly nitwit.



Your stupidity is enormous.

I have never come here to say I had an affair

Between you and me, who has the larger amount of stupidity? Seems to me you not only designed the crown and wear it but you also created the need for the word...

scribble:
So your boy is finally about to enter into a life of servitude

worst of all, im marrying a babe with a big family and im not the very social type

a lot of things about marriage scare the bejesus out of me...ahmean the commitment, responsibility, the nagging, etc etc etc

im getting married to my friend so that takes a bit of the load off but im a man and u know....

just today, i had some new boo who has AGREED to be my side piece, do something rated R for me

she's 7 years younger than my babe, shes beautiful, and intelligent and yes ample ukwu for days...i struck gold on that 1

i know i cant be faithful to ONE woman for the rest of my life, i believe my wife to be knows this too

not because she has caught me cheating or anything but because she knows my nature and being a fine girl, she has seen a lot of such shenanignas from married men herself...

i just pray she doesnt change it for me after we marry and start trying to suffocate me, because i wont stand for it at all....

*shout out to killjoy for your thread bruh...thats what motivated me to write this, im about to get married and i think its a dumb decision but how do i break a womans heart after 7 years she patiently stuck by me and took my ish, cried etc etc

i cant be that dude...but i will just try and reach a compromise with her, she just doesnt want anything like SECOND wife and me personally MUST be out of my damn mind to marry another load after the fear that has enveloped me in PHASE 1.

besides a lot of babes out there are perfectly comfy with being the side piece, so why should one even entertain the thought....

Deny those are your words?

scribble:



Dude I think it's cos of all the moi moi men out there. When women see a really good man, nobody needs to tell them to change their mindset.

LMAO!!!!!! *dead*
You are not a good man, you are nothing but a pathetic, sorry excuse of a human being. You only wish you are a man. All you are is a little boy trying to play big.