Bobloco:

Bobloco:

bukatyne:


1. I am talking value, why did he approach her?
(Duhhhhh... To have sex ofcourse , that a man approached a girl does not mean she is valuable to him o, please try and understand, it is when a man decide to wife her, that one can say she's valuable to him ))...

2. I know that we push this narrative to make girls sit up but only a valueless man would tangle with a woman that doesn't bring value to him. A man who sleeps with a prostitute is one with her. (Sweetheart, you really don't know so much about men do you? .... A man will be with even a wh.o.r.e as long as he gets to nuts inside her regularly, period!! The only reason a man will wife up a girl is because he sees her as valuable. Do you know how much resources and time it takes to marry a wife? NO YOU DONT!!! You're a woman. You have NO IDEA how much pressure that is. But I do ... And I can tell you, that only a woman who is considered valuable can make a man go through all that stress, unless ofcourse na just to cover pregnancy make them marry ))

3. My number two applies. In addition, it is the man's duty to look for the value. ((The search for value is a duty of both men and women, any other view is a naive one ....)

4. If a man was in a relationship with a valueless woman for ten years, it is an indictment in him. It tells me he lacks vision and foresight. It is said that birds of same feather flock together (Sweetheart, to know about men, listen to men. You don't know how men think eh, relax . I can be with you for 10years and at the end I leave you and marry someone I met 6months ago ... Is it because I lack "vision or foresight"? Not really, but having a lady for recreational use while I invest in the one I consider valuable is one offer that less than1% of men will turn down, blimey you may not like to hear this, but MEN KNOW WHO THEY WANT TO MARRY, PERIOD! If it's not you, it is not you)) and oh, men and women are different, so that whole birds of the same feather thingy doesn't apply here

5. If the man can't observe himself, perhaps he is not mature to be a husband. (Clarity is gained not just by observation alone, but by critical probing and analysis, if you knew this, then maybe we wouldn't be having this conversation ....))

6. What answers would she give that would satisfy you? If you did not see the value in ten years, perhaps it is not there (exactly! But I assure you that the man probably knew this after a 6months, but he won't say it because his nuts are getting drained on a regular
A one day conversation wouldn't make you see it. It is also possible that she has value however, not for you. ((That's true, no argument here))

mariahAngel:


Maka gini kwanu?

That should be between her and her husband, don't you think so?

bukatyne:


Please do not assume I am like the women in your family.

Secondly, it is poverty mentality to only think money when resources or qualities are mentioned.

NoToPile:
Bukatyne and her threads.

Long time no see.

As for the topic I just hope the alfamales/redpillar people won't derail the thread.

emmanuelbrown26:

Aunty, I disagree. She should tell us what she brought to d table in other to encourage sisters to know what to bring to d table. Bcs some sisters might hv something to bring on d table but they might not know it

mariahAngel:


Bukatyne, are you up for it?
Eyin saa le si tredi.

bukatyne:


Hahahahahaha @ well captured.

Maybe because I met my husband young and before the 'what do you bring to the table' madness, I find the question very irritating.

mariahAngel:


Maka gini kwanu?

That should be between her and her husband, don't you think so?

mariahAngel:


Bukatyne, are you up for it?
Eyin saa le si tredi.

Karleb:
Men are actually the table when you think about it.

I will only change my mind when men starts going to Shiloh.

ImaIma1:


Serious people don't ask that stupid question. They don't have to ask, because before they chose her, they already knew the space she was going to fill in their lives.

The alphas and redpillers will wriggle on this thread like worms that they poured salt on. They don't like this kind of truth.

Elporo:


One woman is another thread complaining that her husband is now a "verified" alcoholic. He was normal until he married her.

bukatyne:


Bros, as you responded in my post, how would I respond to you?

ImaIma1:


Don't mind the kids on this forum. The other day one was asking me if I married as a virgin. He wanted me to announce to the forum

I don't just know what they have filled their brains with that sense is missing.

emmanuelbrown26:

Enyim nwanyi, imele kpole?

mariahAngel:


A ri m mma.

ImaIma1:


Serious people don't ask that stupid question. They don't have to ask, because before they chose her, they already knew the space she was going to fill in their lives.

The alphas and redpillers will wriggle on this thread like worms that they poured salt on. They don't like this kind of truth.

mariahAngel:


A ri m mma.

bukatyne:


Please can you look at value outside money?

As you saying if a woman is willing to give you all her salary in a month and she steals/lies, it is fine by you?

ZIMDRILL:



she gives you kids/ you give each other kids

she is a friend/wife to share a life with comfort, even a status in society

mariahAngel:


One dare not type those as a female on this forum. Males here would have none of it! Ike gwuru.

JeffreyJunior:
This is simple logic. If a man chykes a woman, he should first show her a table before asking what she is bringing to it.

Problem with awa burodas is that some of us don't even have a table but we dey ask ladies what they are bringing to it.

Ladies, if any man asks you that kwesion. Ask him to show you the table fess.

ZIMDRILL:


outside money or wealth

she gives you kids/ you give each other kids

she is a friend/wife to share a life with comfort, even a status in society

angelfallz:
This is interesting. I also agree with you. The question is silly. Over time, while dating, the man should be able to discern what the woman is bringing to the table, and decide if what she brings, is enough for him. The woman, also, should be able to over time, discern what the man is bringing to the table, and decide if what he brings is enough for her.