thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Please I beg be patient with her ...... Because of the new baby

You must be a troll

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

boxypane:

Foolish advice. You are worst than him.

You think so, wait till women teach you sense, your head will correct!
I've learnt to live like a king within my space, I hate it when I work hard to make you happy and all you are will to return to me is nagging and bad attitude, try it with me and I will ghost you, I come first!!

thesilentman:

ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

No be you get am pregnant? No pregnancy if you don't want to spend money, condom is not up to 300k.

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

calm down my friend. If you run from one "craze woman" what about the next one ? You better endure this phase and try to bribe her with suya and hollandia or any other strange combination women crave once once. It's most likely postpartum depression and will wear off. Stop all that red pill nonsense you people are doing nowadays, you're married to a living human and not a robot. You have to learn to be fluid in your relationship with madam. Buy me two bottles of desperado

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

if u love ur wife correctly u listen to u.

something led to her current behaviour. Not all red pill advice are effective or correct it depends on the scenario and dynamics.

ur wife just had a baby why not give her some time to adjust to the situation and operation. Even If she is wrong this is not the time to flex muscles to show off ur big ego.

Red pill teaches u not just how to act bt when to act. U are out of line.

pocohantas:


Most men and women do not plan for CS. It is a last and emergency resort for many. Doesn't change the fact that the OP is a brown 🐐🐐.

I plan for CS from the beginning of all my wife pregnancies!

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Give am more preek ; D

BlissGod:


I understand bro, the anger I had is the fact he said she was submissive. If she changed it could be depression or trauma of the csection done on her: I had a friend that lost 8pints of blood a safe delivery almost turned fatal but God be praised she’s alive today, and she was traumatized for months not talking even to her husband only her child and mum she found safety in.

Imagine if the husband come dey vex because of the 700k wey he spend without consideration of the fact that the wife almost saw her life flash severally before her eyes.and this idiot spent only 300k with safe delivery and he wants the special accolade for his own wife and child. He must be a wicked man for considering divorce.

The 700k d person spent, did the man spent it during Jonathan, Buhari or Tinubu regime?

So many variables at play, you can never compared two households.

Na d guy know how e dey run him house. The wife in question doesn't look like she is even working.

He needs to be very patient with her, but it's a balancing act as his patience might also result in him losing control of the house.

A woman who just gave birth must be given all round care.

cococandy:
You must be a troll

OMGOSh!

BlissGod:


You’re just a stupid man, I don’t know you but you Sound like one cocky piece of crap. Your stupid ego will soon scatter your marriage, just 300k that you’re here looking for gratitude a woman that could have lost her life in childbirth or worse.

A woman who has sacrificed her body to give you two kids. You are the problem of your marriage. Imagine using the word taming your wife as if she’s a dog you dey tame. Your wife might be going thru post depression of childbirth. Instead of sorting things out you’re here typing rubbish to talk nonsense about her. So let’s hate her now.

I was so angry reading his post. Someone who calls himself a husband is using words like; "collected a loan on her behalf", sacrificed for her", spent unplanned money for her C.S. just imagine

I don't know why every shit should be brought to front page or don't the mods go through posts before bringing them here

Kobojunkie:
OMGOSh!

There’s no way he’s for real. This was written for reactions because if not…

Keep drinking, it will solve the problem

Tamed?
Paid 300k for CS and hoped he would respect her more for that.

Abeg I can't deal,

Make I go read page 2 just first page I am vexing

thesilentman:

I appreciate your advice so much.I'd give it a try before i do what's on my mind.

If you already have other options/plans, you may not be patient enough to try all the 7 steps before giving up.

The woman is going through a lot. Delivery by surgery, breastfeeding and taking care of baby, different thoughts and emotions.

Half of it alone will make you craze.

She just needs your full availability, encouragement and support for the next few months

Your wife has POST PARTUM DEPRESSION.
Please see needs love and counselling from a good therapist. She needs Urgent help

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

I am in the same shoe with you man, but in my own case, she travelled to her place and she don't want to come back, initially I was worried but now I see the blessing in disguise.

No matter what you do for a woman, consider it a waste. Don't stress yourself any longer kick her out and it you can't leave the house for her.

Your peace of mind determines your happiness in life which will tell on your health.

I think men need to master fasting, abstinence from sex, and keeping our emotions in check for at least three months.

Anything to cut off her influence do it, train your kids by opening an account in their name, put withdrawal limit, pay fees directly to their school(make sure you have someone Anonymously to verify).

It will be hard on you but cut off emotions from your kids BECAUSE SHE WILL USE THEM TO MANIPULATE AND FIGHT YOU.

stay strong

From ur statement "tame"

Bro, hope i'm wrong. Don't make her feel like a slave for marrying u. If she has been good, try and find out what had gone wrong and fix it if its ur fault

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Have you ever thought of what she's going through mentally?
Is she sound emotionally?
Do you know some women go into post partum depression?
Is she having enough support at home regarding nursing the baby?
Before you conclude that she's going haywire, think properly sir. All she may need is extra hands to support her, Someone tell her that she's doing great regardless. Nursing a baby can be overwhelming sir. Please stay calm and support your wife. There's no perfect woman or home anywhere. Work with what you have to get what you want.

Listen to yourself! she have change in what way? Women are the best creature on earth only if you can understand them

thesilentman:

ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

How is the 300k CS money a sacrifice made for her? You're rather helping yourself man. You should even be thankful she survived it and even be overlooking her wrongdoings coz of that.

Now to the topic, most of us when courting we tell the lady the kind of characters we want our ideal wife to possess, the ladies too are ready to settle down hence they pretend to have those characters.

Since pretence always has expiry date which is mostly after childbirth that's why we are witnessing cases like yours.

If you can handle it try your best but if you can't, my brother don't let anyone deceive you with bible or motivation quotes, just jejely work out, if you fail to, trust me you can never have peace in that home bcoz women don't change they only pretend to have changed. When a woman begs you to give her one last chance be ready to be given her more and more till thy kingdom come.

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

You meant you had your second child few days ago with csand you have been bad mouthing her here please try to be responsible like you claim you're

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

SOLUTION

Women use kids to get at or back at us men, this is the time for you to use it against her, but not in the negative way (e.g a woman carrying a man kids and running away, or poisoning the heart of the children against their father), I mean in the good way.......

Start spending more time at home with the kids especially the new born baby carry him/her blow kisses, kiss cheeks, sing sweet songs both your local dialect that you and your wife understand and songs like African Queen by 2face do this when she is around and when she is not around, or you feel she might be secretly watching you, you can also profess your love for the mother of your child while carrying your child as if you are talking to only the child though you know she must be eavesdropping, you can also say things to the baby like you are very fine like your mother ah no your mother is more beautiful with that her big ass, sweet lips just describe her sexually.....also talking about your plans for life and you seeing only her and the kids in it will do........

You have to stay away from drinking outside during this period instead buy the drinks (alcohol involved) and assorted meat, chicken etc and bring home let her join you in the feasting (women love to enjoy what their men is enjoying outside) ,keep the sex going and make sure during this period you do it like in the parlour I.e somewhere in the house that is not your bedroom, e.g kitchen......

The alcohol you are drinking invite and insist she takes at least one cup at least once during this period and after it make sure you make love to her....... (it will be ur bragging right later how she was all over you after having just a small taste of alcohol).....

You have to put up this act for at least a month to make it look like you have turned a new leaf.......

Inviting someone from the outside might not work because while the person is advising her she will behave like she has heeded but will later continue the same way, women what is in their hearts is in their hearts (you can only soften it) .There may be something you did unknowingly that might not be a big deal to you as a man but she picked it up and has been nursing it since......

During this period you will have to change the new born baby diapers at least twice for her to buy it, it might even be when she wants to do it and you tell her to leave it that you will do it (more effective).......

Also only call her mama the new born baby name don't call her by her name e.g mama James, during this period.....

The first two weeks she might not believe but after a full month she will surely have a change of heart.....Thinking you have changed, for where.......

All this is just to give her a good memory of another side of you, making yourself look like the king of simps, showing your soft side, after just a month you can redpill for the rest of your life......

Just use the baby against her, use what women use against us.....

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Shame on you man, you are a disgrace to men, you just came here to embarrass yourself and show your stupidity to the universe. Sorry.

Sit down, talk to her.

In fact, take her out. Talk with her heart to heart.

Na woman, na só dem be.

One fuse don blow.
Talk to her before making rash decisions.
Na your wife

Brownking:


Shame on you man, you are a disgrace to men, you just came here to embarrass yourself and show your stupidity to the universe. Sorry.

haha. Haba

BlissGod:


You’re just a stupid man, I don’t know you but you Sound like one cocky piece of crap. Your stupid ego will soon scatter your marriage, just 300k that you’re here looking for gratitude a woman that could have lost her life in childbirth or worse.

A woman who has sacrificed her body to give you two kids. You are the problem of your marriage. Imagine using the word taming your wife as if she’s a dog you dey tame. Your wife might be going thru post depression of childbirth. Instead of sorting things out you’re here typing rubbish to talk nonsense about her. So let’s hate her now.

You are a woman, you can only see your side of things.........

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Have you heard of 'post partum depression'?

You need to read it up, it might help you to understand your wife better

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

You are being paranoid. You want to keep been a controlling and now she has outsmarted you.

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Ever heard of post-partum depression? Clearly, she wasn't like this before bearing a child, shouldn't that be an indication that it is just a phase. Your wife needs more tender loving care now morethan ever...

A certain banker is presently cooling off in one of the prison cells in Minna. He allegedly went to drink his sorry ass away in a bar, had more bottles than he can handle and committed manslaughter afterwards.


Good luck!

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Try see a psychiatrist... could be one of those post partum/puerperal phycological disorders ( post partum depression, maternity blue etc....)

Skyview01:


I plan for CS from the beginning of all my wife pregnancies!

Most men and women never plan for a CS - Fact.

Skyview never plans for a CS - Never implied and takes nothing off the initial statement.

Thanks.

Acidosis:


Brown kini?

🐐🐐🐐 I feel they are more stubborn.