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Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by TheRealestGuy(m): 10:12am On Dec 02, 2023
Nauttyprof:


When you lose your culture and morals, you end up with words as yours.

She has said nothing wrong. We are gradually losing our culture to copy western practice whereas some of these westerners are gradually imbibing our culture. Respect and values are key.

Culture of subjugation that never brought any technological or scientific innovation grin

When did calling people by their name become disrespectful?

Yes I know in some Nigerian cultures, emphasis is placed on using prefixes like Aunty, Uncle, Sir and Ma but all those do not necessarily equal respect.

Respect is usually earned and thus, people may call someone by those prefixes and still disrespect them thoroughly.

For example I've heard so many times where people say "brother yen o gbadun", "iya yen siwin", etc.

Salutation has never meant respect at any time in history but will you learn?
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Makunahatata: 10:14am On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:

Werey npofo ati jesu grin grin
Awon ebi ti sofo laye ati orun
Oma keku
ni oruko Jesu..aiye re otun lojutu mor , wa talaka ku ni...Amin jesu
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by descarado: 10:16am On Dec 02, 2023
There was a movie this lady did with Frederick years ago that I watched. That movie was one of the best of Frederick and I still remember it. Searching for it. I hope it's this lady though but the movie came to my mind the moment I saw her face.

Don't even know the name of the movie. Sighs.
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 10:41am On Dec 02, 2023
Makunahatata:
ni oruko Jesu..aiye re otun lojutu mor , wa talaka ku ni...Amin jesu
🤣🤣🤣
Oloriburuku no bobo you sha
Eni ti o ba fi oruko jesu kegun mewa ma padasi odo e
Werey ni eleyi shaiwo ati Iran ti pada soriburuku sha
Kowere lo
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Makunahatata: 11:08am On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:

🤣🤣🤣
Oloriburuku no bobo you sha
Eni ti o ba fi oruko jesu kegun mewa ma padasi odo e
Werey ni eleyi shaiwo ati Iran ti pada soriburuku sha
Kowere lo
Iwo gan kofo danu...ko oriburukulor...wa ko agbako niwaju lorukor Jesu
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 11:09am On Dec 02, 2023
Makunahatata:
Iwo gan kofo danu...ko oriburukulor...wa ko agbako niwaju lorukor Jesu
Werey tin ke🤣🤣🤣
Awon irankiran ko ni ragba fun won
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Kingson28: 11:21am On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:
Peele arugbo ojo

To even realize that you are Yoruba…
Who raised you?
Whatever happened to your upbringing?
You are a disgrace to your parents.
Weren’t you told NOT to speak so disparagingly to elders and older people?
Seriously, this generation is just something else.
Retrace your steps, young lady.
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Makunahatata: 11:23am On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:

Werey tin ke🤣🤣🤣
Awon irankiran ko ni ragba fun won
awon iyalaya e ma rogun ekun lorukor Jesu
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 11:26am On Dec 02, 2023
Makunahatata:
awon iyalaya e ma rogun ekun lorukor Jesu
Oloriburuku akoshibero
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by creativehubb: 11:35am On Dec 02, 2023
The interviewer asked her the question, social media always quoting people out of context.

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Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by ApostlePaul14: 11:40am On Dec 02, 2023
We hear u Mama Shaffy

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Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by membranus: 11:47am On Dec 02, 2023
Mindlog:


How many UBA workers in Nigeria can boldly call Tony Elumelu by his first name? cheesy cheesy cheesy

I was a former UBA staff. It was our corporate culture to call everyone by first name, including Tony. But because of our cultural instinct, people rarely do so, since respect is inbuilt in most Nigerians.

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Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by HRMK: 11:55am On Dec 02, 2023
that depends on the culture of where you come from!
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by zoghys: 11:56am On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:
Peele arugbo ojo

Your comment is stupid.

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Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by HRMK: 11:58am On Dec 02, 2023
you dont plead for respect.you earn it!

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Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Makunahatata: 11:59am On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:

Oloriburuku akoshibero
awon obi e akoshibero,Eni a n Jiri ,alaye baje
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by dangotesmummy: 12:01pm On Dec 02, 2023
Aonkuuse:
You are just arguing nonsense because probably you ain't raised well..... The insistence of the west to be called by their first name is their culture, why are you throwing yours away?? If you say this one has no value then what value is the one of the west has?? Most of you are suffering from cultural inferiority..... Ok go to Tinubu, Buhari or Abacha and address them as hello Mr. Tinubu, Mr. Buhari or Mr. Abacha. On a normal day, the west even use "Sir" as sign of respect for age and position... Nobody is fighting for respect, it's just a concern that kids like you are destroying the order of nature
you dey mind am? Even the queen of England's daughter in-law bends her knees to greet her


Na mumu things them go dey copy from America
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Officialpyper(m): 12:05pm On Dec 02, 2023
Mindlog:
Go Nairobi, a 4 year old will call you by your first name and even ask you "how are you"? cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Na im one of the early set of GT bank's top executives who was posted to Kenya to head the GTbank's Kenya operation, oga struggled with their Kenyan junior staffs calling him casually by his first name. cheesy cheesy cheesy

Are we in Kenya?
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 12:07pm On Dec 02, 2023
Makunahatata:
awon obi e akoshibero,Eni a n Jiri ,alaye baje
Awon ponrimogopo iyalaya e ni mashafani
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Advancedman(m): 12:13pm On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:
Peele arugbo ojo


You're a FOOL
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Makunahatata: 12:14pm On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:

Awon ponrimogopo iyalaya e ni mashafani
odabi pe olurubuku gidi niwo boyi..if den born your papa well ,come Ikeja 10am tomorrow if I no go finish your life
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 12:15pm On Dec 02, 2023
Advancedman:



You're a FOOL
Your father
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 12:16pm On Dec 02, 2023
Makunahatata:
odabi pe olurubuku gidi niwo boyi..if den born your papa well ,come Ikeja 10am tomorrow if I no go finish your life
🤣🤣
First of all finish your your useless mother
Then drop your number ikeja is big drop specific location
Ogun ma fi eje we
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Btoyob(m): 12:34pm On Dec 02, 2023
It's not their fault na your ageless bodies cause am😄😄😄😄😄😄
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Makunahatata: 12:37pm On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:

🤣🤣
First of all finish your your useless mother
Then drop your number ikeja is big drop specific location
Ogun ma fi eje we
come city mall where ppl go plenty to record your lifeless useless body . oloribu Omo ofo
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 12:44pm On Dec 02, 2023
Makunahatata:
come city mall where ppl go plenty to record your lifeless useless body . oloribu Omo ofo
Shey olosho no awon ti oni e ni
Drop number if e sure for your mama shebi na you pick venue
No wahala
Awenibaku Omo oshi
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Makunahatata: 12:49pm On Dec 02, 2023
iamoyindamola:

Shey olosho no awon ti oni e ni
Drop number if e sure for your mama shebi na you pick venue
No wahala
Awenibaku Omo oshi
why I go drop my number for useless criminal like u...come the mall 10am if e sure fr ur papa... quote me here if u don reach..Ogun lapa e danu
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Nauttyprof(m): 12:58pm On Dec 02, 2023
TheRealestGuy:


Culture of subjugation that never brought any technological or scientific innovation grin

When did calling people by their name become disrespectful?

Yes I know in some Nigerian cultures, emphasis is placed on using prefixes like Aunty, Uncle, Sir and Ma but all those do not necessarily equal respect.

Respect is usually earned and thus, people may call someone by those prefixes and still disrespect them thoroughly.

For example I've heard so many times where people say "brother yen o gbadun", "iya yen siwin", etc.

Salutation has never meant respect at any time in history but will you learn?

Respect is earned has always being the narrative of the disrespectful in many situations I have seen. An adult doesn't have to earn any respect but they deserve the respect irrespective of their character. This is where culture comes in. Culture has nothing to do with technological or scientific development as there is no connection whatsoever. Instead, it is part of societal values. Why are the westerners imbibing our culture now while we are losing ours while copying theirs? Do they want to go backwards technologically by doing this? Going by your own narrative. It's really sad.
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by SweetDipBenny(m): 12:59pm On Dec 02, 2023
illicit:


Ageing has its own problems
thot it was only a number 🤭😄
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by iamoyindamola(m): 1:02pm On Dec 02, 2023
Makunahatata:
why I go drop my number for useless criminal like u...come the mall 10am if e sure fr ur papa... quote me here if u don reach..Ogun lapa e danu
Shey engbo werey
Call this number tomorrow
09113079351
Have dropped my number for a criminal like you
Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by Miyachi: 1:21pm On Dec 02, 2023
Nauttyprof:


Culture has nothing to do with politics. This is just the usual style of connecting everything to the situation of the country. When has respect for elders stopped the youth from coming out to contest in an election? Or have we not seen some youths who also messed up in politics? Does this have anything to do with culture?

It's time we go back to our values and unique culture and create a sane society. It's the disrespect and disregard for our culture that has led to moral decadence in the society and no headway anymore.

Did I talk about politics? If you interpreted my post that way, then you are to blame. What I was referring to is how I've seen a lot of older people misbehaving but are given leeway because the are "elders" and I'm not even talking about politics.

You speak of culture as if Nigeria's is homogenous. You've forgotten that what is acceptable in certain parts is completely frowned upon in other parts.

This lady is in entertainment and so she should expect to be referred to by her name. Your fans will not call you Madam or Ma or Mrs. That is all balderdash.

Wasn't the entertainment industry copied from the west, do you see them going about calling there actors Ma, Sir and all?

The black man's mind is so backward and we grasp at very foolish issues and make them seem important.

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