Nauttyprof:


Respect is earned has always being the narrative of the disrespectful in many situations I have seen. An adult doesn't have to earn any respect but they deserve the respect irrespective of their character. This is where culture comes in. Culture has nothing to do with technological or scientific development as there is no connection whatsoever. Instead, it is part of societal values. Why are the westerners imbibing our culture now while we are losing ours while copying theirs? Do they want to go backwards technologically by doing this? Going by your own narrative. It's really sad.

You're mistaken being civil or polite for respect.

Respect is earned by giving it hence the phrase respect is reciprocal.

No one automatically deserves respect in any situation, except maybe one's parents cos they birthed you but even then, if one's parents consistently disrespect their child then they actually deserve whatever they get.

Your mindset is very disturbing but I'm not surprised - it's what has kept Nigerians in bondage for decades.

People don't speak the truth to criminals in the society in the name of respecting one's elders.

You better wake up and free yourself from such a subservient mentality!

iamoyindamola:
Peele arugbo ojo

"Arugbo Ojo" is a name reserved exclusively for God Almighty. Please take note.

iamoyindamola:

Shey engbo werey
Call this number tomorrow
09113079351
Have dropped my number for a criminal like you

fraudster, wetin I wan use your number do ..your cup don full,all the ppl u duped here on nairaland go have their justice tomorrow if ur papa show up,if den born u well come mall

Makunahatata:
fraudster, wetin I wan use your number do ..your cup don full,all the ppl u duped here on nairaland go have their justice tomorrow if ur papa show up,if den born u well come mall

Werey don't chicken out now
Bring your miserable parents I scammed with you too

iamoyindamola:

Werey don't chicken out now
Bring your miserable parents I scammed with you too

oloobuku ole ,419, your cup don full ..ma na aiye e baje lorla

Thundafireseun:
When an old man plays with children in the sand … he shouldn’t be sad when those children start playing with his scrotum

When you’re always in the mist of children you shouldn’t be worried about them calling you by your 1st name ma

Gbam!

Makunahatata:
oloobuku ole ,419, your cup don full ..ma na aiye e baje lorla

Ti iyalaya e o ba Ku si ewon
Ti ola dey na

iamoyindamola:

Ti iyalaya e o ba Ku si ewon
Ti ola dey na

omo ofo..we shall see

Makunahatata:
omo ofo..we shall see

Oloriburuku till then

Some pple will now give reasons why she's not right as far as they are concerned. That's fine, but she is right. When you you are there, you will see it as you should.

illicit:
Sometimes Age is a liability


👌

Oponu

enemyofprogress:
make money and respect will find you

Call your father's brother name if you get money pass am... Mumu ... People just dey get money ni

Fearyourcreator:

Oponu

Iya e

illicit:


Iya e

You don't have one

Fearyourcreator:

You don't have one

Yeah sure

I dropped from d sky


Ofonu

illicit:

Yeah sure

I dropped from d sky


Ofonu

Like I said you no be like person wey get ... E no show say you get

illicit:

Yeah sure

I dropped from d sky


Ofonu

She no get value to you ... Na why you fast dey talk rubbish to anothers

Fearyourcreator:

She no get value to you ... Na why you fast dey talk rubbish to anothers

How much value u get to urself that u insult someone that has nothing to do with u

Omoale

illicit:


How much value u get to urself that u insult someone that has nothing to do with u

Omoale

Your mama no get value to you...

Fearyourcreator:

Like I said you no be like person wey get ... E no show say you get

U no get manners cos u no sabi ur papa


Omo ijoba

Fearyourcreator:

Your mama no get value to you...

U no get life

U no still get sense

illicit:


U no get manners cos u no sabi ur papa


Omo ijoba

You no value your parents... Nawa ooo

illicit:


U no get life

U no still get sense

You just dey disgrace yourself people here... Oleeko

Fearyourcreator:

You just dey disgrace yourself people here... Oleeko

U get anybody?


Oloriburuku

Fearyourcreator:

You no value your parents... Nawa ooo

Ur parents get value?

Abiipabe Omo

illicit:


Ur parents get value?

Abiipabe Omo

Yeah, yours no get to you

TheRealestGuy:


You're mistaken being civil or polite for respect.

Respect is earned by giving it hence the phrase respect is reciprocal.

No one automatically deserves respect in any situation, except maybe one's parents cos they birthed you but even then, if one's parents consistently disrespect their child then they actually deserve whatever they get.

Your mindset is very disturbing but I'm not surprised - it's what has kept Nigerians in bondage for decades.

People don't speak the truth to criminals in the society in the name of respecting one's elders.

You better wake up and free yourself from such a subservient mentality!

It is your mindset that has rather made Nigeria inferior to the western practice. Culture is different from politics. Practicing our culture doesn't mean that truth shouldn't be spoken.

It is people like you who have ruined our culture because of seemingly better western practices. You still have the slavery mentality and you need to free yourself from this.

So, we are both clear I have travelled out of the shores of Nigeria and I have been to countries technologically advanced, yet, they uphold their culture. It is your mentality that has rather ruined Nigeria.

Culture is not politics and it is neither technological development. It is just a way of life.

Miyachi:


Did I talk about politics? If you interpreted my post that way, then you are to blame. What I was referring to is how I've seen a lot of older people misbehaving but are given leeway because the are "elders" and I'm not even talking about politics.

You speak of culture as if Nigeria's is homogenous. You've forgotten that what is acceptable in certain parts is completely frowned upon in other parts.

This lady is in entertainment and so she should expect to be referred to by her name. Your fans will not call you Madam or Ma or Mrs. That is all balderdash.

Wasn't the entertainment industry copied from the west, do you see them going about calling there actors Ma, Sir and all?

The black man's mind is so backward and we grasp at very foolish issues and make them seem important.

Entertainment never came from the west. We had our unique way of entertainment. We only borrowed their technology and also, brought some improvement to ours This is one of the problem why you never value anything that is ours but seem to see the western practice as being better.

Black man's mind isn't backward. If that's the case, we shouldn't have heard of many black men who made giant strides and are recognised globally. Can you see where the issue is with your narrative? Believing anything western is okay but yours is backward.

I have been to many countries with technological advancement and yet, still see them uphold their culture with respect and value for the elders. Yet, what we have, we lose it because we want to be like the west.

Culture is just a way of life and we should start having the right thoughts about our culture. She expressed her view and she should be respected for this.

Fearyourcreator:

Call your father's brother name if you get money pass am... Mumu ... People just dey get money ni

what do you know? Dem born you with brother? Na poverty dey worry you. With money comes respect. Free yourself from poverty, ode

Nauttyprof:


Entertainment never came from the west. We had our unique way of entertainment. We only borrowed their technology and also, brought some improvement to ours This is one of the problem why you never value anything that is ours but seem to see the western practice as being better.

Black man's mind isn't backward. If that's the case, we shouldn't have heard of many black men who made giant strides and are recognised globally. Can you see where the issue is with your narrative? Believing anything western is okay but yours is backward.

I have been to many countries with technological advancement and yet, still see them uphold their culture with respect and value for the elders. Yet, what we have, we lose it because we want to be like the west.

Culture is just a way of life and we should start having the right thoughts about our culture. She expressed her view and she should be respected for this.

Nollywood, Hollywood. AMVCA, Academy Award. I see absolutely no relation.

Our entertainment industry is a direct copy of the west's, even the movies sometimes seem like cheap knock-offs.

Once again, culture is man-made it is not divine. There are a lot of terrible things that we've dropped and still a lot of terrible things we're still doing.

Culture is not perfect, so don't justify anything by saying "culture". It is also not static.

enemyofprogress:
make money and respect will find you

try to get brain, everything is not about having money. Alaye respect ur elders!

Warmaterial:
try to get brain, everything is not about having money. Alaye respect ur elders!

who elders epp?