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Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sukkot: 2:46pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sisisioge:sister, hand done touch one of our pipo for canada ooo. this one is on FP as we speak https://www.nairaland.com/7645785/thinking-relocating-back-nigeria-canada |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by being(m): 2:51pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot:Sukkot, rest this, more than half of Nigeria immigrants may not be finding it rosy financially but u have quite a number doing very well... I usually like to start my T-chart of pros & cons from the assumption that u do well financially... But even with this, I still see some other negative factors that outweigh higher financial prosperity.. like wrong doctrines taught kids, the laws around kids' discipline, subtle & direct racism & social life with F&F 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by cococandy(f): 2:51pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: That’s why threads like these don’t paint a true picture of what it’s actually like. Europe is a whole continent. Same as America. Just imagine if someone started generalizing about Africa when the differences are so vast. There’s no way it makes sense to compare life in South Africa vs Kenya for example. Or ghana vs Cuba. It’s that different even though it’s one central govt but the differences are on the same scale in certain aspects and income is one of those big differences. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by Kelechi009: 2:55pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
Gerrard59: I used to think you were PRO-Tinubu, this man you use to surprise us. Anyway, excellent submission. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by bukatyne(f): 3:05pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
NoToPile: That's really poor work ethics. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sisisioge: 3:16pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: Saw it, I think he should return since he couldnt seem to think of changing job, besides he's bored with his course as well. One down, several still standing. Do you know how many Nigerians travel with the student routes, how many are returning? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:34pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: well they should start by asking other doctors who are up the ladder how the system works 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:45pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
ChybuzzDD: you are missing one big picture foreign doctors take time to raise up the ladder, unless one is renowed specialis, the rest have to go through various test and exams most fails because 1 new environment which is very strict 2 most lack common courtsey A UK trained doctor has easy reference to follow and pict up any misconduct, a foreign doctor has to start from minimum going up building that UK experience and reference etc |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sukkot: 3:49pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sisisioge:lol truthfully I think it's the case of a soft kid who has never worked in naija before. Truthfully Canada is not for ajebutters. To survive Canada you must be a rugged ajepako. When that snow hit you when you dey do night patrol with bingo for that security job, na dat time you go know say khaki no be leather lmaooo 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sukkot: 3:52pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
cococandy:very true indeed. People need to understand abroad is different from abroad. I tell people if you can't get into America just forget it. Other places na suffer . |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sukkot: 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
being:its very true. There are more damaging factors to consider. Like you rightly said the doctrines taught to kids. All that LGBT stuff. By the time they are done polluting your kids minds the kids don't even belong to you anymore. It's like a monster living in your house looking at you like you are some archaic stone age weirdo lmaoooooo 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by Gerrard59(m): 4:10pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
Kelechi009: There is no way I would have my signature and be a Tinubu disciple. It is not possible. I hate people who campaigned and voted for Buhari in 2015. It is an eternal thing. I dey cut-off people wey campaign for that man. Regarding my views on Tinubu himself, I am very rational with it. He had the best chances of winning, so PO, AA & KK going campaigning separately made it so easy for him. I don't like Tinubu. |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sisisioge: 4:13pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: Since we're all security men doing night patrol, you're very correct! To be truthfully, it's really a cold country, the snow is crazy, a lot of people work from home, there are jackets made for the weather, the cars mostly come with heat on the chairs, inside are suitably heated, most of the kids are so used to the weather that you had to negotiate wearing suitable jacket to school.....it is no where as bad as our Naija situation at it's worst as there are other good things to compensate for the cold weather. By the way, you know that a security guy in Canada is not on the same pay grade level after all deductibles with most of the white collar job guys in naija? Those that drive Semi trucks aren't the same as those on high grade government office jobs in naija. Some hair dresses here may waaaaaay more than bank managers in Nigeria on a monthly basis.....person dey wey dey charge 1200CAD for braids that she does in 4 hrs, cheapest braided will charge you 200CAD for hair she finishes in 3hrs. She does 2 to 3 per day. So stop ridiculing those jobs you see as below status...they make way money than the suit wearers in Nigeria even after paying their bills. To each mallam, his kettle. By now you and I should have exhausted this argument, happy easter. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:21pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: the problem is not the system but the parents, let me break it down 1 parents spend more time working than having social time with thier children hence friends and social media will raise their children 2 parents are proud of their kids sounding more british/american than keeping the balance 3 LBBT is taught in class as an awareness that people are different but its not forced on families, 4 africans we play catch up and we pick white low income families as role models not realising that these are the worst of the white people, in simple terms is when we move abroad, the 1st few years we live in poor areas and we adopt what is their and we assume thats what all whites do etc which is not 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sukkot: 4:30pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sisisioge:lmao yeah I think we are done. But it was fun. Oh and I am not saying security is the only job out there. I was using it as standard entry level job for fresh off the boat Nigerians but I know there are people doing well in Canada. But yeah it was fun . Happy Easter 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sukkot: 4:34pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:whats the argument ? That it's the parents fault that the children become alien to them ? You are very correct. 100 percent. They work too much. Chase money endlessly at the expense of creating a bond with their growing children . That's why most of these children become strangers at home and monsters on the street especially in London this is an epidemic |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:42pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: no arguement i was just responding to the blaiming culutre instead of looking into yourself as parent |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by cococandy(f): 4:55pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: Well I really like Canada a lot. If not for the lesser income, I prefer it to America. Just my opinion though. I know some people won’t agree 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by ChybuzzDD(m): 4:59pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
sukkot: The link you posted corroborates my own side of the story more than it does to yours. The salary deductions might be as a form of punishment for one thing or another, as deemed necessary by the private hospital. The truth remains that only a minute group of guys are involved, who chose to follow the easier and illegal route via agencies. Agency recruitment of healthcare professionals from Nigeria and other 3rd world countries has long been banned, the reason those guys couldn't even take any legal action. The story is quite different from the overwhelming majority who went through the NHS websites 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by Kelechi009: 5:29pm On Apr 09, 2023 |
Gerrard59: *He had the best chances of rigging. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by sukkot: 12:35am On Apr 10, 2023 |
cococandy:you are very correct especially for people with children Canada is definitely a way better place and safer to raise children. Only problem as you said the pay is not great but also their taxation is killing. But you get free healthcare though. It's a give or take. Choose your poison |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by Nnamdipapa(m): 2:57pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
sukkot: I respectfully disagree. I know people uk doing very fine. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by Nnamdipapa(m): 3:17pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
sisisioge: Tax avoidance is completely legal anywhere in the world |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by copyrites: 4:32pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
Treadway: True. In fact, there are cases of kidnapping all over the world. It's only more in some parts compared to others. Just visit the website of Canadian police or any police institution of any first world country, you will see photos of missing/kidnapped persons....Some have been missing for 20 years. ...but like I mentioned, it is only more in Naija. |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by zed7: 8:53am On Apr 11, 2023 |
Unfortunately, many people japaing for their kids will end up with kids who become druggies, criminals, transgenders etc. It's harsh but it's the truth. Some people will definitely become a product of their environment. It will be even worse if those people who japaed for their kids were living at least a decent life before throwing it all away. Of course, some will have kids who will excel. Experience has shown that the immigrant kids who excel the most are those who have known a bit of hardship and are motivated. Kids who migrate in their teens. I believe in choices though. Those japaing for their kids should make sure they don't forget to remind those kids that they're Africans and raise them as such. That's why the Indians and Chinese succeed from generations to generations. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by xavuv: 9:12am On Apr 11, 2023 |
sisisioge: All for the wrong reasons again ... 1 Like |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by xavuv: 9:19am On Apr 11, 2023 |
sisisioge: But these earnings are3 spent in Canada on bills taxes etc ... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:37am On Apr 11, 2023 |
zed7: The kids could also become Yahoo boys, kidnappers, bandits and oloshos In Nigeria too. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by zed7: 9:38am On Apr 11, 2023 |
sisisioge: See JJC. You entered Canada in 2022 and you're now talking like a veteran? Lol. Please tell me where you stay in Canada and what work you do? Probably still spending your savings and attaching to a friend or relative. It's well. Give yourself 2 years and come back and re tell your Candaian experience. Nigerians are never true to themselves. Even the few who try to tell it as it is are accused of not wanting others to progress. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by zed7: 9:39am On Apr 11, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20:Sure, but their parents didn't sell houses to go and become cleaners and ass wipers. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:42am On Apr 11, 2023 |
zed7:Not everyone sold houses to move abroad. Not every country is the uk. Not everyone working abroad is doing care job. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by zed7: 9:45am On Apr 11, 2023 |
tensazangetsu20: Its very essy to psycho analyse you. You're an idealist Nigerian who spends his time on travel section and watching YouTube videos, dreaming of the abroad and hoping to afford it someday. Learn to listen to some of us who've experienced quite a bit of both ends. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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